Nudie Lee On Union Naturism and the Importance of Communicating

Nudism is Ruining My Marriage By Nudie Lee:
This week's question comes to us from our sister website, Ask A Nudist.
Q.
I 've been a social nudist for several years, but I've been hiding it from my wife and children. Up to now I Have had the opportunity to spend several weekends (this year an entire week!) Virtually always. I also go nude at the local naturist at nude beaches or clubs by lying to my wife.
I UNDERSTAND my wife would not join me in naturism for spiritual reasons (trust me on this). I don't want to choose between continuing the lies or giving up naturism so I am thinking about divorce. Our marriage has many other issues anyway and there is little love there.
I feel guilty about putting the kids through this of course but I do not feel able to deny or conceal such an important part of myself as naturism for years to come.
A.
The first blunder made in this relationship was lying about your true self. If nudism was an important part of your life, it should have been shared with your partner.


Even if from a sense of shame; 4) for aesthetic reasons, as decoration, enjoyment, beauty, and to entice the reverse is not a nudist and would not have joined you in social nudity for her personal spiritual reasons (true to her self), she might have come to understand and accept your naturist ways.
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The Complete Story of all the Sex, Drugs and Debauchery That Did Not Happen at the Nude Adult Pajama Party 's also important to divide your want of nudism with the other problems in your relationship. Don't forget that by omitting this enormous part of your life, you didn't give your wife the opportunity to accept you as a naturist, or not. Assuming consistently leads down the wrong path.
I truly hope that you will be able to locate a means to happiness. When children watch happy parents, as a unit or as two separate people, they end up as more secure human beings.
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Part time writer, part-time barista, and highly opinionated, Nudie Lee bursts onto the scene! Forged in a far off land of freezing temperatures, large brutal creatures, and universal health care, she's here to help with your entire dating and relationship questions.